Why your accomplished HR career isn't helping your job search

The best HR leaders are often the worst at their own job searches. I've noticed this with dozens of women who reach out to me for support. They're accomplished, confident professionals. And they're convinced their job search is failing because they're not trying hard enough. But here's what I actually see. 

Their HR career is sabotaging them.

Always behind-the-scenes

Think about how you've built your HR career. You've spent 15, maybe 20 years making other people successful. Solving problems behind the scenes. Being the facilitator, the enabler, the person who makes the organization run. That's where you've thrived. That's who you've become professionally.

Now, a successful job search requires the exact opposite approach. It requires visibility. Self-promotion. Putting yourself front and center. Talking about your accomplishments. Building your personal brand.

For someone whose entire identity has been built on being behind the scenes, this can feel pretty uncomfortable.

The people-pleaser

I've also noticed that many of my clients are successful in their roles precisely because they're liked. And they're liked because they always agree. They're reliable. They're flexible. They don't make waves.

But a strategic job search requires the opposite. It requires you to be selective about which opportunities you pursue. To articulate a clear point of view. To push back on headhunters who try to put you in a box. To be visible in ways that feel uncomfortable.

So, you apply to jobs online (a passive strategy with a 2-5% success rate according to recruiting data), keep your LinkedIn profile bare, avoid networking events where you might have to talk about yourself, and hope someone notices you. And when nothing happens, you blame the market, you blame the ATS and (reluctantly) you blame yourself.

You are doing it alone

HR is a lonely function. You're carrying confidential information that creates invisible barriers between you and your colleagues. You can't talk to most people about what's really going on. And when you're job searching, this isolation intensifies.

You're navigating one of the most emotionally draining experiences of your career completely alone. No one to reality-check your approach. No one to remind you of your value when rejections pile up. No one who understands both the HR world and the specific challenges of leaving it.

So what's actually missing?

You're job search is stuck because you're missing three critical things:

Strategy. You're spending 90% of your time applying to jobs online instead of the networking and relationship-building that actually leads to opportunities at your level.

Support. You're navigating this completely alone without anyone to validate your approach or remind you of your value when rejections pile up.

Structure. You know what you should be doing, but without a clear framework and accountability, those tasks keep getting pushed to the bottom of your endless to-do list.

A LinkedIn profile optimization course won't fix these problems. Neither will a resume workshop or networking tips.

You need something different. You need to do the internal work first: uncovering your actual strengths (not what you think you should be good at), shifting into a growth mindset about what's possible for your career, and building a peer community of women who understand exactly what you're navigating.

That's what the Job Search Accelerator for Women in HR is designed to do.

Over 12 weeks, you'll work through your strengths with others who get it. You'll shift your mindset from "I have to be strategic about visibility" to "I want to own my accomplishments." You'll build your strategic roadmap with peer accountability and support. And you'll join a community of women in your exact situation, so you never feel alone in this process.

This isn't a program about LinkedIn optimization or resume formatting. It's a program about becoming the kind of HR professional who can confidently advocate for herself. Who can move from behind the scenes to the spotlight. Who can build a career that reflects the way you want to work now.

The women who've moved through this program don't just land jobs. They land jobs that energize them. In companies that value HR. Where they can actually see themselves thriving.

Your accomplished HR career got you here. It's time to build a job search strategy that actually fits who you are.

Ready to transform your search? The next cohort of the Job Search Accelerator for Women in HR is accepting applications. You can learn more and apply here.

I work with female senior leaders in Human Resources who feel stuck to help them love their work or find work they love. I write about:

👂 Executive & career coaching

📄 Career development and career transition

🎯 Job search strategy

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